How to Have a Threesome : Top Tips On How To Have the “Perfect” Threesome in 2019

Today we are going to answer a question that many men are asking! How to have a threesome? It is quite common for me to ask this question in coaching. As if there was a guide to follow step by step …But unfortunately, no! There is no right strategy that ensures you every time to finish with two beautiful girls in bed (or a girl and a friend). But rest assured, we have good advice to give you, to drastically increase your chances of having a threesome!

So if sexual plurality is your big fantasy, read the lines that follow. They will give you the keys of the doors close …

The basics of a Threesome

In this article, we will see in detail how to make a threesome. For this, I will not give you a series of actions to achieve a night of madness. Already, because I do not know any infallible method and because according to my experiences, a Threesome requires several characteristics to exist:

  • Communicate well: The magic of a threesome is most of the time when there is good communication. When I speak of good communication, I mean that everyone assumes their desires and that no one hides behind the least lie. Be careful, because the communication can be nonverbal, hence the importance of knowing how to read the language of the body.
  • Want it: It may sound stupid, but to have a threesome, all participants must feel like it. You will NEVER force someone (otherwise it’s called rape). So to the question: how to make a threesome? We can already answer, when all the participants have (already had) envy.
  • Being in the right place, at the right time: Personally, the vast majority of the three, four and more shots that I realized were almost by chance. Chance in the sense, I was not trying to achieve this kind of madness when I met these groups of girls. My way of behaving and expressing myself naturally brought me to the right place at the right time.

Here are the three main points that we will detail in this article to know how to have a threesome.

The art of talking about sexuality

To be as concrete as possible, I will give you some examples so that you understand the importance of communication to have a threesome.

The threesome is a fantasy as widespread among women as men. We can test this new sexual practice for many reasons: spice up your sex life, satisfy a fantasy, challenge … But to succeed a threesome when we are in a relationship, we must respect a few rules. Follow the guide !

The rules of a successful Threesome

Determine if a threesome is a common fantasy

Before embarking on a threesome, you have to know why you want to do it. To spice up your life as a couple? To test new sexual practices? Just for fun ? These few minutes of introspection already allow us to know if we really want to satisfy this fantasy.

Then comes the moment to slip the idea to his partner. If he refuses categorically, there is no point in arguing for hours. Either he does not feel ready, or he is too jealous, or that kind of practice does not suit him. Moreover, the gap between fantasy and reality can discourage more than one.

We respect his will, because on our side we would be revolted at the idea that our partner forces us to do something we do not want. If he is not against the idea, but he is afraid, he must be reassured. Doing a threesome does not mean that it is not enough for us or that we want to see elsewhere. But just this fantasy tempts us and we want to live with him.

How to organize a threesome?

Set rules not to be exceeded

To succeed a threesome with her boyfriend, you must set rules in advance. For example, if we do not want to see our partner kiss another girl they say and vice versa.

Some just look at their partner and take care of her without ever touching the third person.

The main thing is to communicate before, during the threesome and after. If something disturbs us, we express ourselves, even if it breaks the mood.

Otherwise this fun moment can quickly become a bad memory where pleasure has given way to rancor.

Threesome and jealousy

Unfortunately, the threesome is not without risk. After the fact, one of the two people can regret both.

She begins to ruminate, to remember scenes and to feel the jealousy to invade. To avoid the big fight of couple, nothing is worth the communication.

If finally, after testing, we realize that the threesome is not made for us, it must be said. So the other knows that we do not want to repeat the experience and will find the words to reassure us.

How to find a third partner threesome?

If my guy wants a threesome with another guy, another girl, if I want to make a 3-in-one with another girl or a guy, anything is possible! But you have to talk about it first and come to an agreement.

We must choose a person with whom we are comfortable, with whom we get along well and who attracts us. Better to be single and not too close to us to avoid conflict. For convenience, there are specialized dating sites like 3nderapp.org or Feeld.org to find a partner or a couple for having a threesome.

An erotic mood for a perfect threesome

Before starting the festivities, everyone must be in the mood. We can thus precede the passage to the action of a good meal, a drink in a bar, a cinema session …

We talk, we charm, we brush, we raise the sexual tension between partners. And when things continue in the room, everyone is already excited.

The comfort of all is paramount, so we think to change the sheets, to put a little music and opt for a dim light. And most importantly, we bring condoms and lubricant. It must be changed with each partner.

The main thing is to let yourself be carried away by your desires, those of others and especially to communicate!